Early years
- Grew up programming; his dad was a software engineer, which lowered the barrier to entry. Started working out of high school, founded a company that got acqui-hired, then bounced around as a consultant and founded more companies before ~6 years of full-time open source
7:04. - Minecraft modding was the formative experience: he worked on a modding framework itself, built mods, and ran a ~100-player server where he used mods to create "interesting situations" to observe how people behaved — sandbox design over gameplay
7:52. - The modding community lived on IRC and included very senior programmers who weren't career-motivated — talented people funneling their energy into Minecraft — and he learned a lot from them in a couple of months
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Early startup lessons (Ride Health, ~2017)
- Head of engineering at a transportation/healthcare startup that grew to ~20 people and "ended up in a disaster" — though he met his wife there (she was head of product): "better than a startup exit"
9:22. - Key takeaway: the "bunch of young people building a startup" stereotype is the exception, not the rule. Everyone was in their 20s, insecure, and it played out as politics and drama. He wouldn't invest in all-young teams
9:44. - Startups are intimate and intense; if you're not fully developed as a person, insecurities show up at work as conflict. He feels his own brain didn't "settle" until ~26, and the change felt like night and day
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